Saturday, April 4

Week One

Well, we received our home study paperwork packet last Friday, March 27. One week in and here is what I have (or we, I guess) have accomplished:

  • Got our certified marriage certificate from the courthouse

  • Sent out all our reference requests to those dear IRL friends who have agreed to be our references

  • Had our fingerprints done for both the FBI and State criminal/background checks

  • Got our local city criminal checks complete, letter in hand

  • Got my employer HR reference to verify employment--DH is in progress

  • Scheduled our physicals with our PC physician--as if I haven't seen a Dr in the last two years!

  • Scheduled and took our Infant/Child CPR class and got our certification letter

  • Ordered our required reading from Ama.zon

  • Scheduled our Baby Care class so we can learn how to dress, feed & diaper a baby (really? I only nannied for like 6 years!)

  • Scheduled the appointment for next week with the Fire inspector to approve our house

  • Contacted the health insurance company and got a letter drafted stating our baby will have coverage when placed with us for adoption

  • Today, we're going to the BMV to get our driving records.


  • Phew. And I worked my real job this week (mostly). It feels so good to be moving forward. We still have A LOT to do. Next week, I have my Lap/Hysteroscopy on Friday and by Sunday I hope to being feeling well enough to work on the last parts of our profile--the big parts, like the Dear Birthparent(s) letter. I'm taking Monday and Tuesday off due to the surgery and between movies maybe I will start the required reading and also work on the profile. Nothing like tackling all this head on.

    6 comments:

    Anonymous said...

    Wow! Again let me say that I'm inspired. That's a serious lot of shit to have gotten done while still maintaining a "real life"! Inspired and impressed, and fascinated to see what happens next.

    Jo said...

    Wow, you have been a busy lady! It's still so amazing to me how complicated this process is!

    Hoping and praying that it is soon complete and you are welcoming a baby home!

    Hugs,
    Jo

    'Murgdan' said...

    Incredible. Glad to see things are progressing...and although it's not a productive comment, it is so incredibly not right that everyone doesn't have to do these things to have a child....diapering class? seriously?

    Erica said...

    Whew! And I thought I had a busy week - you go girl!

    Do you feel a sense of relief that you have taken back some control over your life? I keep thinking that this IVF cycle is IT for me! I want my life back. I feel like stamping my feet and chanting that - I want my life back, I want my life back! Really, though - how are you feeling?

    Joanna said...

    Wow. I knew adoption required a lot on the part of the adoptive parents, but didn't know just HOW much. Driving records? Really?!

    Erica Douglas said...

    Hi, just wanted to say good luck on your surgery. I had my first lap three weeks ago today and I feel 99% back to normal. Mine was on a Wednesday and I was back to work teaching full-time by the next Monday. Good luck with the surgery and best of luck with your homestudy and adoption!